Before I came to this country, I have no idea what FICO score , 401k, IRA and all those financial terms are. Until the day I want to apply for a Victoria Secret store credit. I was turned down. ( the application was for $500 credit line)
Unfortunately, hubby told me, without a credit history, I can never get a credit card, or any kind of loan, and stuff like that. Oh well I wasnt really planning to go into debt but they do offers coupons, rewards, points and stuff like that.
So I asked hubby what is his credit score. He said, his was pretty low because few mistakes he did (not totally 100% his fault ) I know he been struggling a little after his dad passed away and he is the oldest son in the family. I remember he always do a cash advance during that time (which I have no idea what it was at that time).
Then soon I found out he had default with his student loan (he thought he had it on forbearance ), few unpaid parking tickets, few small store credit cards….. and I remember it was low 600’s. I know he was a little stress at that time. So we sat down and discuss about this. I told him I want to get some credit history and I also want him to promise me to try to clean his credit report.
So the first thing we did was to the student loan company. After few discussion on the issue, they agree to start a fresh new monthly payment, and gave him few months to start making payment. But there’s nothing they can do to clean the credit report because it was hubby’s fault.
Then we paid down those small parking tickets, and few store credits ( which he completely forgot about them). It is not he was being irresponsible, because he choose to help his family. I dont blame him because I will probably do the same.
Anyway I did took a minimum wage job at that time (need to create US work history as well). And together, we cleaned up his report. We did purchase reports to make sure that everything is settled, or “paid as agreed”.
At the same time, I got a credit card offer from capital one for $500 credit line. It was introductory credit card for new user who has no credit history. From there I started to make few small charges, an paid it off before the interest started to kick in. I also notice, hubby starting to get credit card offers in the mail too. So we apply for capital one almost at the same time.
We alternately charge the groceries on our card, and little by little, our score started to increase. We still lived with hubby’s family at that time, so we planned to move out once we have decent score. The reason was so that we can both rent an apartment under both names. (Well they did credit checks on both of us anyway) Plus we dont want to keep on applying and wasted on non-refundable $50 credit check for both of us only to find out we wont be getting the place. ( It happened once before). So we decided to wait for a while.
After almost a year, we started to get more 0% introductory cards. I only accept them once we “ran” out of 0% period. The reason we did this is so that we can charge on our cc, and make minimum payment every months, than whatever was suppose to be paid, we keep it in our high yield saving account ( the best we could get was 4-5% at that time) Hey it is better than nothing.
My favourite credit card is chase reward card. We got over $100 on cash back already. I am still using the same one and I love it so far. We charge almost everything on that card, from groceries, gas, and other bills that accepted credit card), and paid it off every months.
It also helps us finding a good apartment in pretty quite neighborhood, ( at that time hubby’s score is in mid 600’s and mine is in 700’s ).
Fast forward today, we are in a better financial shape than we were 2 years ago. Well we are not rich or anything but we pretty decent live. There’s still a lot more to be done but we are taking baby steps. Hubby’s score is now in the low 700’s. It took him over a year and half to bring that score up to 700s.
Surely my first thought was, how can a low score hurts you? If you are not planning to purchase anything, getting a loan, or simply pay by cash, you dont need FICO score or credit history. But I finally knew that nowadays, potential employer do look at your score and reports, because it does reflect your level of responsibility in a way.
And of course, we would never be able to move out and rent a place if we have terrible scores. I am glad we take care of those even though it took us almost a year and half. The first thing we need to do is to admit your mistakes and try to negotiate as much with the lenders. They need payments from you, so most of the time they are willing to work with a payment plan… better late than never.
You also have to be honest with your spouse and willing to work this out together.
notes : There are a lot of other options to clean out your credit, we did what best for us, and the debts are pretty new. So if you have 4-5 years old debts or bancruptcy and such, it is better to ask a financial planner or research online on the best methods to tackle this issue.